For most functions $f(x)$, there is nothing better than calculating all the values. After all, for most functions, there is no better way of defining the function than giving its truth table.
Probably, you want to talk about the relatively small fraction of cases in which the function $f(x)$ has some reasonably compact description. In that case, you should be able to design a classical circuit for its implementation. If you can do that, you can make the implementation reversible. And, once you've done that, it's no problem programming that reversible implementation into a quantum computer to act in the place of your oracle. And the whole point of Grover's search is to minimise the number of calls to the oracle, and hence minimise the number of times the function is evaluated.
At this point, some philosophical questions may arise, some of which were discussed here. Particularly regarding search, remember that the function would not typically be defined by having the marked item programmed into it directly, just that the function can run and recognise the marked item. You can think of this a bit like factoring. If I give you a large composite number of factor, you can run some code to determine if a particular integer is a factor or not. It doesn't mean that the code you've written already knows what the factors are.
