I have heard various talks at my institution from experimentalists (who all happened to be working on superconducting qubits) that the textbook idea of true "Projective" measurement is not what happens in real-life experiments. Each time I asked them to elaborate, and they say that "weak" measurements are what happen in reality.
I assume that by "projective" measurements they mean a measurement on a quantum state like the following:
$$P\vert\psi\rangle=P(a\vert\uparrow\rangle+ b\vert\downarrow\rangle)=\vert\uparrow\rangle \,\mathrm{or}\, \vert\downarrow\rangle$$
In other words, a measurement which fully collapses the qubit.
However, if I take the experimentalist's statement that real measurements are more like strong "weak"-measurements, then I run into Busch's theorem, which says roughly that you only get as much information as how strongly you measure. In other words, I can't get around not doing a full projective measurement, I need to do so to get the state information
So, I have two main questions:
Why is it thought that projective measurements cannot be performed experimentally? What happens instead?
What is the appropriate framework to think about experimental measurement in quantum computing systems that is actually realistic? Both a qualitative and quantitative picture would be appreciated.